All people are prone to making mistakes, there is nothing wrong with that. On the contrary, mistakes often stimulate us, give us determination, although, of course, many people take it as a personal defeat and become even more discouraged.
I’m sure that any mistake can be analyzed and perceived as experience: everyone makes mistakes, including you.
The following story can serve as an example, just draw conclusions and take note. Yes, the person made a mistake and now regrets it, but at the same time, it taught him something.
Of course, someone else’s experience is no substitute for your own, but try to understand it, because the message is actually very simple. Here is the story of a man who left his wife…
“Exactly a year ago, I left my wife. I left her because I met a young and sexy girl who gave me pleasure that my wife hadn’t done for a long time. She literally became coarse, covered with cellulite, stretch marks, her stomach sagged …
My wife forgot about cosmetics, stopped taking care of her hair, and I noticed that she smelled more and more like sweat.
She stopped doing basic things: painting her nails, shaving her legs, wearing a bra, which made her breasts sag … In short, all these things had a very negative impact on me. I could no longer see the woman I fell in love with. So I left.
Today, exactly a year after we broke up, I met my ex-wife. And I couldn’t believe my eyes: how good she looked! Beautiful, well-groomed, with a toned sexy body, dressed in a rather revealing tight-fitting dress… It can’t be! I refused to believe it.
She looked nothing like a mother of three (my children!), and I thought hard about what had really happened. Perhaps when she was with me, she didn’t have time to go to the gym, because she spent all her time with me and our children! Maybe she didn’t wear a bra simply because she didn’t have time to bother with it, because she had to feed the kids?
Maybe she didn’t shave her legs or pluck her eyebrows because she had to cook, wash, and clean up after all of us? Now I think that maybe she was actually happy? After all, she had always dreamed of a big and strong family, wanted to take care of someone. Perhaps her life was wonderful, and I just couldn’t appreciate it …
I want to say only one thing: I know what a real woman in the house is, and I missed her, lost the person who was the greatest happiness for me.
I exchanged the beauty that is inside for the beauty that is outside. And she met a man who stopped treating her like a servant and gave her time to take care of herself. Now it’s too late to change anything…”
Every time you think that someone is not worthy of you or does not meet your expectations, just look inside yourself and think about what you give in return. Are you making a mistake right now? If you haven’t decided if you are, do something nice for your loved one!
